SHOCKING CONFESSION OF A SERBIAN WOMAN WHOSE HUSBAND CHEATED ON HER WITH A MAN: First he brought him to our house, and then....

- Most of the pictures were of his manhood, with messages "for you". There were pictures of his body, and even pictures of them that were taken who knows when! I was numb from the shock...

- When you are in a marriage, there are always struggles, but you enter a marriage knowing all of this. However, none of us wants to be fooled, its humiliating, and mortifying - begins Svetlana, who is telling her shocking story to our Portal only a month after finding out her that her husband cheated, in their home, with his work colleague, who is gay.

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In fact, her husband, Marko M. used to bring this man to their home and present him as his work colleague.

- I used to make them lunch, we hung out with him for months, he was a sweet guy. I even wanted to set him up with a friend who was also gay, although he seemed uninterested, so I didn't want to push him on the issue. Not in my wildest  dreams could I have imagined that something like this would happen, my whole life is falling apart.

This family has a son and daughter, both university students who know their parents are divorcing, but don't know the reason behind it.

- I don't want them to know what their father has done. They'll hate him, but he was always a good father. The fact that he ruined my life doesn't mean he should ruin theirs. Its disgusting, this is all so disgusting. If Marko ends up wanting to tell me why, I'll let him but I'll keep quiet.

When we asked her how she managed to find out about the cheating, she told us she had her doubts for some time.

- Marko started going out late, always dolled up, smelling nice, and happy. Those outings became more frequent- first two times, then three times, then five times a week... and this went on for months.The nature of his work is the type where he has to go on dates when he least expects it, so I was more or less accustomed to this type of dynamic. However, a woman always knows. I sensed that something wasn't OK. Only, I couldn't of imagined that this was about a.. -the poor woman stopped in her tracks, holding back tears and continued:

- ...that he was with another man! I thought maybe he had a midlife crisis and was going after younger girls. Even though, up until that point, I had full trust in him, I knew that I had to do some detective work. One time, when he went to shower, I grabbed hold of his phone, and had plenty to see!

According to what Svetlana told us, she found around 20-30 naked photos of his, "colleague" in various poses.

- Most of the pictures were of his manhood, with messages "for you". There were pictures of his body, and even pictures of them together that were taken who knows when! I was numb from the shock. Who knows how long this lasted, and right in front of my eyes!

I went onto Viber, and happened to see a message. I just flew by the text messages, they were full of talk about arranging date nights, love notes, kisses, those "i miss you" messages. The last message that I read was "I would love to lay beside you tonight, not beside her". Marko had sent him...I thought I was going to die.

The shower turned off, and suddenly, Marko stood in front of me, I didn't hear him when he got out.

- What are you doing? Why did you take my phone?

I just looked at him with a blank expression, I couldn't react, my face said it all, he knew, I knew. When I summoned up the strength to reply, I asked how long its been going on, and if he was in love.

- I'm in love, I adore him. I was waiting for the right moment to tell you, but I didn't know how. -Svetlana recalls the conversation.

- But, how? Our kids? Me? Our family? Since when do you love men, you are disgusting, I can't believe what you've done!

- I was always attracted to men, only I couldn't allow myself to explore. I'm sorry - in a pitiful voice he begged me, and how Svetlana described, he cried like a baby.

According to what Svetlana told us, she got a phone call from Goran P., the man her husband had cheated on her with.

- He told me that he was sorry that this all happened like this, and that he takes full responsibility, that his intention was not to ruin our family.

Now that I think of it, it wasn't him that ruined our family, it was Marko. Marko couldn't man up, and admit this to himself  from the start. At first, I was disgusted by his cheating. After, because he slept with me and him at the same time. And then - because I lived with a man for 25 years who was afraid and ashamed of who he was. What kind of a role model is that for my children? Disgusting. - concluded Svetlana.

(Telegraf.co.uk/ E.T.)