Kako te nije sramota da se s detetom u naručju tako oblačiš: Mlada majka napadnuta zbog ove odeće, da li je muškarac u pravu? (FOTO)

Popularna australijska blogerka Stivi Niki (27) doživela je veliku neprijatnost tokom jedne šetnje s detetom u naručju.

U nju se gotovo zaleteo jedan nepoznati muškarac i iskritikovao njen stil oblačenja koji, prema njegovom mišljenju ne pristaje jednoj majci.

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The other day someone said to me that i dont dress like a mum and i shouldnt wear what i do. There was even a comment about my clothing not being age appropriate. I was wearing this outfit. Umm what.. excuse me? The 1950's just telegramed and they want their out dated views back. Did the governement roll out and distribute a mum uniform and i missed the memo? Did they assign people to enforce and police such dress codes? Shall i go buy an apron too? Since when do I have to dress according to someone elses likes and dislikes? Lastly, i plan to be 80, rocking ripped jeans, tulle trimmed unicorn shirts and rainbow hair. So you can take your "age appropriate" dribble back a few decades. What i choose to look like or wear does not change who i am within. My appearance does not impact my personality. Who i am on the outside does not define who i am on the inside. Your opinions, views and sense of style only reflects you and not anyone else. I will look however i want to look and dress in whatever i want to dress in and still be a Mum. I could have a sex change and i'll still be the mother to my children. Guess what? Good and kind people can have tats, mums can have piercings, caring people can ride motorbikes and wear a patch, poor people can be generous beyond their means and quiet people can be loud. Asthetically pleasing people can be mean, fit looking people can feel insecure, wealthy people can be rude and crass, happy people can be in pain and friendly people can do evil things. Enough with the stereotypes.. theres nothing worse or more ignorant. Think before you speak, get to know someone before you choose to judge someone - better yet, just dont. No one likes a judgey mcjudge face. Shout out to my husband for always capturing my best side 🙄😝 . PS guarentee everyones camera roll is full of photos like this too.. 😂A post shared by Stevie || Aussie Mum (@mytribeofsix) on Jan 2, 2018 at 11:29pm PST

Problem je bio u tome što se ovom muškarcu nisu dopale pocepane farmerke koje je na sebi imala Stivi, odnosno to što više "nije klinka" da se tako oblači.

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- Pre neki dan mi je neko rekao da se ne odevam poput majke i da ne bi trebala da nosim to što nosim. Čak sam čula komentar da moja odeća nije primerena mojim godinama. Nosila sam ovo s fotografije. Izvinite? Upravo se javila 1950. i želi nazad svoje zastarele stavove. Da li je to vlada izdala naredbu o tome šta bi mame trebale da nose, a ja sam je propustila? Jesu li angažovali policiju da pazi šta ljudi oblače? Otkad to moram da se odevam onako kako se drugima sviđa? Na kraju krajeva, planiram li da i u 80-im nosim pocepane farmerke, suknje od tila s jednorozima i kosu u duginim bojama? - upitala se Niki a onda i u dahu nastavila s pisanjem na Instagramu:

 

What my Saturday night looks like. One unsettled babe, one tired mumma, so we're doing the only rational thing - cuddling in the cot. He usually goes down like dream (trust me when i say it took 18 months for him to sleep through or sleep in his cot at all) but tonight, he's gone back to his old ways - woke after an hour and cried since, so here we are. I could be upset or frustrated, but im not. Its nice, it hasnt happened for months , and may never happen again.. so im soaking it all up. I miss it. Dont get me wrong, im enjoying a full nights sleep - without a kid in our bed (until they all climb in come morning) but it feels like somethings missing now, when i lay in bed at night. I've basically coslept the past 8 years without much of a break, if any. Is it still called co sleeping if I'm in his bed? Better not close my eyes too long though, i may end up having a sleep over in the cot tonight. #RavingSaturdayNightA post shared by Stevie || Aussie Mum (@mytribeofsix) on Nov 18, 2017 at 12:53am PST

- To kako izgledam ili šta nosim ne govori kakva sam osoba. Moj izgled ne utiče na moju ličnost. Ono što sam spolja ne definiše kakva sam iznutra. Izgledaću kako želim i odevam ono što želim, a svejedno ću biti majka. Mogu promeniti i pol, svejedno ću svojoj deci biti majka. Pogodite šta? Dobri i dragi ljudi mogu imati tetovaže, mame mogu imati pirsing, brižni ljudi mogu da voze motocikle, siromašni ljudi mogu da budu velikodušni preko svojih mogućnosti, tihi ljudi mogu biti glasni. Lepi ljudi mogu biti zli, zgodni ljudi se mogu osećati nesigurno, bogati ljudi mogu biti primitivni, srećni ljudi mogu i da tuguju, a prijateljski nastrojeni ljudi mogu da rade loše stvari - poručuje ova blogerka.

 

Anyone else ever think or worry about all the radiation from mobile phones, microwaves, wifi.. ? Yeah nah, me either 😨😐 . But seriously, People sleeping with phones under their pillows or carrying them all day in their bras or pockets. Cant help but think its probably not great, but maybe its nothing 🤷 but maybe it is. Cancer is kinda scary... And welcome to the thought process in my head. #IJustWantEveryoneToLiveForEver #AndBeHealthy #MyMorningPonder #AlwaysWorryingAboutSomething #OhAndAShamelessSelfie #HaveYouEverEvenSeenMePostASelfie?A post shared by Stevie || Aussie Mum (@mytribeofsix) on Oct 29, 2017 at 12:56pm PDT

Na kraju zaključuje kako svi treba da prekinemo sa stereotipima jer ne postoji ništa gore od njih.

- Razmislite pre nego što išta kažete, pokušajte da upoznate nekog pre nego što sudite o njemu, a još bolje, nemojte uopšte da sudite - piše Stivi.

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