Srce moje bebe je prestalo da kuca... Potresna ispovest poznate glumice posle gubitka deteta

Foto: Instagram/claireholt

Glumica Kler Holt, zvezda serije "Vampirski dnevnici", se nakon gubitka deteta oglasila javno otvorenim pismom koja je objavila na društvenim mrežama.

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Naime, ona je na Instagramu postavila fotografiju koju je snimila pre kiretaže, medicinskog zahvata koji se obavlja nakon pobačaja da bi se očistila materica od tkiva da ne bi došlo do jakog krvarenja i infekcija.

- Snimila sam ovu fotografiju pre 10 dana, dok sam čekala operaciju nakon što je srce moje male bebe prestalo da kuca. Poslala sam sliku svom vereniku koji je bio u čekaonici kako bi mu pokazala da sam ok. Ali nisam bila. Nikada se nisam osećala tako slomljeno u životu - napisala je Kler i nastavila:

 

A post shared by Claire Holt (@claireholt) on Mar 27, 2017 at 10:25am PDT

- Nakon kiretaže provela sam sate na internetu gde sam tražila žene koje su isto prošle kao i ja. Bila sam očajna u potrazi za nekim, bilo ko bi mogao da se poistoveti sa onim šta sam osećala. Neko ko bi mi rekao da su depresija i beznađe normalne. Da nije moja greška. Da nisam slomljena zauvek. Našla sam zajednicu žena koji su sa mnom podelile isto iskustvo... - napisala je, između ostalog, Kler Holt.

Ona je dodala da je ključ njenog oporavka jeste podrška koju je dobijala, pre svega od verenika koji je bio uz nju.

Evo i fotografije i celog njenog otvorenog pisma:

 

I took this photo 10 days ago, as I waited for surgery after my sweet little baby lost its heartbeat. I sent it to my fiancé in the waiting room to show him that I was ok. I wasn’t. I’ve never felt more broken in my life. I debated sharing this so soon and I’m still frightened about making such a private struggle public, but I’m doing it anyway because it's important. After my D & C, I spent hours on the internet searching for women who had been through it. I was desperate to find someone, anyone, who could relate to what I was feeling. Someone to tell me that the depression and hopelessness were normal. That it wasn’t my fault. That I wasn’t broken forever. I found a community of women who shared my exact experience. Who were open and vulnerable about miscarriage, something that isn’t often or openly discussed. It breaks my heart to think that losing a baby feels like something we have to keep to ourselves. Why is it any different than the death of a loved one? How is it any less meaningful? Here is what I have learned as I begin to crawl out of the dark hole: support is everything. I could not have survived this without the unconditional love of my partner. Despite his pain, he was my rock and my safety net. I will never know how to thank him. I also found that opening up to people is crucial. As soon as I told my story, almost everyone I spoke to told me theirs - their own, their wife’s, their sister’s. So many people go through it and understand the breadth of pain, yet so few people talk about it. Finally, I want to share a blog post that resonated with every part of me. You can find the link in my bio, @leandramcohen of @manrepeller articulates the emotional rollercoaster with an eloquence that I could never possess. To anyone out there who has been through a miscarriage, I understand you. I share every bit of your pain and you are not alone. Please be kind to yourself and I hope that you will be comfortable sharing your story too.A post shared by Claire Holt (@claireholt) on Mar 4, 2018 at 3:52pm PST

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